Thursday, October 26, 2017

When to forgive and When to move on

Forgiveness is not approval. Forgiveness is from within you. Accepting what was done to you, without rehashing, ruminanting, or seeking revenge. 

Allow justice to be served and for people to learn from consequences. 

Yet, without judging them and "damning" them as that forever in your mind. 

Accepting and letting go then, means to accept what was done to you and allow yourself and others to be fully present in a moment where that is no longer in your existence. Live in the now so you can feel the good that is available despite the past.

It is your responsibility to keep yourself safe. Walk away from abuse without judging yourself as rude. Set boundaries and consequences when people cross them. 
Move on from a relationship when the person does not make amends or attempt to meet your needs for safety, respect, & equality.  
Demand people go without controlling you, lying to you, stealing, keeping you against your will, forcing you against your will, or going beyond your set boundaries intentionally without taking in what you asked for. 
Forgiveness doesn't mean to let harmful people stay in your life. 

Treat yourself lovingly by surrounding yourself with those who treat you with love.

Move on from people who do not care enough about you to stop doing to you what you have told them hurts you.

Love surrounds you,
Kristen Tenpenny

Thursday, October 19, 2017

Life differs equally

Lift your hearts and your mind all your gifts to the world.

You don't have to fight to be alive you don't have to kill another in order to survive.

We love you Just As You Are. You have something beautiful to give the world.

Life supports life.

What is inside of you is inside of every living thing. No more special but no less special.

You, I and we are all miracles. The paths that connect us are an integral part of keeping life alive.